Empathizing.
Losing
the ability to empathize.
When mamals, largish
brained creaturess, first evolved, they needed to be able to
learn fairly complex actions in order to survive. It was much easier if
they could learn these complex actions from watching other creatures,
especially their parents. So when a number or mutations turned up that
enabled this, they became dominant. several of these early mutations
evenually produced empathy. The
creatures that had empathy had a distinct advantage
over
creatures that did not, and the better a creature was at it, the more
successful it was at learning, being cooperative, and able to live in
large groups. This is because, how creatures feel is written in
their facial expressions, their body posture and their actions.
Imitating those postures and expressions allows the imitator to feel
what the creature being imitated
was feeling. This is the beginings of the theory of mind, where
creatures become able to atribute intentions to other creatures, and in
its most complex form is a kind of mind reading where one guesses what
another creature is going to do.
Many
creatures make use of empathy in various ways. At
the
moment, the practice of empathy in the home and school is generally
thought to
be detrimental once our native language has been learned and is thus
discouraged, especially in the making of decisions, which are supposed
to be logical as opposed to being emotional. This often ends with
empathy being discouraged or suppressed. Although
one
of the essential ways humans
use empathy is as the
starting point of communication with parents, it is this very
usefullness that makes it seem inessential when its need in this regard
is over. As
children
learn symbolic vocal language, its necessity in communication fades and
with it we tend
to lose
or suppress our ability to use empathy in the pursuit of
genius.
Empathy as
many layers slowly developed by evolution.
Empathy
nurtures creativity in numerous ways and that is because empathy is not
just one thing. Rather empathy is a series of evolutionary mutations
that slowly build on one another and were found to work with one
another. Although many of these evolutionary mutations were kept for
one reason, but they became useful for other reasons. When combined
with earlier mutations their primary reason for being kept by evolution
would change.
In his book "The Age of Empathy" Frans de Waal
explains
this as follows:
"Empathy
engages brain areas that are more than a hundred million years old. The
capasity arose long ago with motor mimicry and emotional contagion,
after which evolution added layer after layer, until our ancestors not
only felt what others felt, but understood what others might want or
need. The full capacity seems put together like a Russian doll. At its
core is an automated process shared with a multitude of species,
sourounded by outer layers: Only a few take another's perspective,
something we are masters at. But even the most sophisticated layers of
the doll normally remain firmly tied to its primal core."
Synchrony
and herding.
Possibly
the oldest mutation associated with empathy is that of hearding and
synchrony. This was an important evolutionary development that offered
creatures a better chance of survival by grouping together and
generally mimicking eachothers movements. Many types of creatures early
on the evolutionary parth were well served by this development. We see
this in birds that flock toether, in fish that swim in schools and no
doubt in many dinasaurs that traveled in herds. Out of this may have
developed the mating rituals of animals in which while the animals are
not exactly mimicking one another are nevertheless synchronized.
Mimicry.
Synchronary
probably developed into a more intensive and exacting motor mimicry
through further mutation resulting in exactly copying body posture,
which gave animals, for the first time, some clues to what emotions the
other animals were experiencing. They discovered that when they assumed
the posture of other animals they also began to experience the emotion
the other animal was experiencing. This was then probably further
enhanced by mutations that allowed animals to mimic facial
expressions which would have given them even greater perception of the
emotions other creatures were experiencing. This obviously led to the
survival atribute of being able to predict what other creatures were
likely to do. This has also led creatures with this ability,
to be
subject to emotional contagion, which has both good and bad
consequences for the creatures.
Parental
care.
While
this was all happening, somewhere during this period, an unrelated
mutation occured and was also kept by evolution for its survival value.
Some species of animals began caring for their young. They began
feeding them the food they obtained themselves, and even began to put
themselves in danger in order to protect their young from preditors.
This was a huge evolutionary success story and is to be seen in most
mamals marsupials and birds. From this mutation probably all unselfish
caring behavior probably originates. It is easy to imagine a few
evolutionary misteps
which result in animals caring for creatures other than their own
young. Obviously when this proved useful evolution would tend to keep
it. So it is that some animals care for injured or ailing mates, their
parents when they are unable to help themselves and sometimes just
another creature in their group. Although these developmens did not
directly improve the creatures survival or even the success of their
progeny, it did improve the evolutionary success of their group.
Sympathy.
When
the syncrony developments are combined with (parental) care we get
creatures that not only have some idea of what other creatures are
feeling but are driven to do something about helping those other
creatures. This it is believed has led to animals experiencing sympathy
for other animals and in consequence taking action to aleviate their
discomfort or pain or to rescue them from probable danger. Thus we we
are able to find various animals that give consolation when other
animals are injured or defeated and indeed provide targeted healping to
those other animals. Many examples of this are given in the book
"The Age of Empathy" by Frans de Waal.
Mirror
neurons.
One of the mutations
that
occured in humans, apes and perhaps several other large brained
creatures (dolphins whales and elephants)
has been called mirror neurons. These are neurons which fire both when
and action is performed, and when it is observed, occur in humans and
ape's brains. It is thought that what these mirror neurons do is
cause automatic
programs to run to imitate in response to observing an action by
another creature. Although these initial programs are very simple they
quickly improve by imitative trial and error learning. In many ways
they are indicators of superior learning ability as they make learning
new actions easier if they can be first observed in others. These early
imitated actions also formed the bases of all communication. It is not
yet clear how many species of animals have these neurons, but it does
not seem unlikely that they might exist in all creatures
that are known to learn behaviors by observing their parents.
Humans
and empathy and perspecive taking.
Ultimately,
empathy in humans has lead to its latest form, that of theory of mind,
mindreading and
perspective taking. All of which has served us well in dealing both
with other creatures and our own species. These tools are essential for
any learning to take place as they are an essential part of our ability
to transfer meaning thus allowing useful activities to be both learned
and modified. The way it allows modification of actions is one way in
which it serves creativity. But a more important way it serves
creativity is that it allows us to take the perspecive of inanimate
objects.
Empathy,
communication, learning and language.
At
its core empathy is responsible for all complex communication. It is
essential for us to be able to communicate enough with others during
our infantsy to allow us to learn our native languages. Without it, or
something very like it, language simply would not be learned at
all. Humans use empathy
as the
starting point of communication with parents, but go on to use
it
to learn about other creatures that they could never properly
communicate with.
Ultimately humans adaped it as the tool that makes symbolic language
possible. Most of the
automatic programes we learn in infancy have to be
suppressed. It
is this suppression of various motor schemas that allows the formation
of
our initial symbols. Empathy has given us many cultural inovations such
as cooperation, resiprosity and graduated feelings of kindness,
strongest with our children and which get gradually weaker and weaker
as it stretches to include other animals, all living creatures and even
some things that are not living.
Empathy
and creativity.
Empathy
nurtures creativity in several ways. Firstly, without it there would be
no experience of art at all because we all experience art by means
mostly of empathy. Every book, every painting, every dance every play
or movie we wxperience by identifying with some part of the work. The
same is true of invention and inovation. Secondly, by allowing us to
understand what others want it enables creators to create that which
others will enjoy and want. Thirdly, by enabling us to experience what
other humans experience, what other creatures experience, it adds
enormously to the creator's spectrum of experience making possible
the presentation of differing points of view within a work enabling
endless novelty. This culminates in creators being able to insert
themselve into objects and systems so that they become that object or
system and
are better able to judge its purposes and outcomes.
Empathy
is a tool. Tools need to be turned on and off.
All
of the 13 tools of genius have pluses and minuses. But when it comes to
empathy it is both essential to our continued existence (we must be
able to turn it on), and highly dangerous to our continued existance
(if we cannot turn it off). On
the one hand empathy is the glue that holds civilization together.
Without it we would not be able to cooperate and we would have little
idea of what motivates others and what they might be likely to do in
various situations.
On the other hand empathy has a dark side. Unlike the other tools,
which
mostly have little downside,
empathy has a real problem, in that if we are too sensitive we actually
can
feel all the pain and suffering of others and all their negative
emotions. We suffer with them. If this is not
balanced by the feeling of positive emotion and pleasure empathic
people can be
draged down into depression. When humans
are in the presence
of a lot of pain and suffering it can take an enormous toll on
them.
Also, obviously, we cannot be sypathising with
someone who is trying to kill us. Surprisingly though, in face to face
confrontations, we do tend to empathize with our attackers or enemys.
This has
always posed a grave problem for the military.
If
we are to
be able to use empathy for good purpose we must first be able to lower
the pain
we ourselves experience by
observing them. One way we can accomplish this is by means of
habituation. We simply get used to the pain of it and don't notice it
so much as time goes bye. By itself this process is
not enough. Fortunately evolution has provided us with many ways we can
turn
down and turn off the triggering of empathy.
So while being a little more empathic might make
us more creative it
might also be highy dangerous to us. What creators need to do is find
an empatic balance that enables them to use empathy to create
but does not cause them to suffer too much. This is all a
matter of taking control of the mecanisms that both trigger empathy and
allow us to turn it down or off.
How
can we take controle of the mecanisms that trigger empathy and turn it
off?
Some of the primitive ways we can take controle
of our empathy have been found to exist in primates as well as humans.
In his book "The Age of Empathy" Frans de Waal explains:
"While
testing capuchins with selfish versus prosocial options, we
found three ways in which we could kill their tendency to be nice.
The
first is to pair them with a stranger: They are in a much more selfish
mood with partners that they've never met before. This fits the idea of
the in-group as the cradle of cooperation."
This certainly tends to be true of most humans as
well. We are much more likely to empathize with relatives and those
with whoom we have a friendly relationship and we are less likely to
empathise with those who are strangers to us. Indeed as Hitler and
others discovered, we can be completely divorced from empathic feeling
toward particular individuals, if they are dehumanised in our eyes.
Those who convine themselves that negros are a lower species do so in
order to prevent empathy with them. The Jews were not only dehumanised,
by Natzi proaganda, which religated them to being part of a lower
species, but were also likened to vermin. De
Waal continues:
"The
second, even more effective way to reduce prosociality is to put the
other out of sight by sliding a solid panel between both monkeys. Even
if the monkey making the choice knows the one on the other side well
and has seen the other through a small peephole, it still refuses to be
prosocial. It acts as if the other isn't there, and turns completely
selfish. Aparently, in order to to share they need to see their
partner."
This lack of empathy when we do not see is evident
in many ways we use to suppress this trigger. For instance we are much
more likely to give help if we see someone in need than if we are told
about someone. Charities always give us some photo of an unfortunate to
focus on. If we do not wish to feel empathic toward a beggar we will
tend to look away. Indeed, even if some one in
need is right there, if we are not paying attention we will not be
empathic. We are also capable of performing many atrocities if we do
not have to see them carried out. It's so much easier to drop a bomb
than kill with knife up close. De Waal continues:
"The
third way to eliminate acts of kindness is perhaps the most intriguing,
since it relates to inequality. If their partner gets a superior
reward, our monkeys become reluctant to pick the prosocial option. They
are perfectly willing to share, but only if their partner is visable
and gets what they get themselves. As soon as their partner is better
off, competition kicks in and interferes with generosity."
This too is very true of humans. Lack of equality
does leed us to be both competative and resentful of those who recieve
or have more than ourselves. We may even feel agressive toward those
who have more and that may cause us to be even less moved by their
suffering. Of course any kind of anger or agression tends to nulify our
ability to have empathy triggered in us. De Waal continues:
"Warfare
is psychologically complex, and seems more a product of hierarchy and
following orders than of aggression and lack of mercy. We are
definately capable of it, and do kill for our country, but the activity
conflicts at the deepest level with our humanity."
The human military organizations have long known
that the only way to get soldiers to kill is to take away the
responsibility for it, by making it a matter of following orders. At
the same time they train soldiers to react instantly, in an habitual
way, so the act is performed before the soldier has time to think or
feel empathy.
Some other ways people avoid triggering empathy or
lessen its impact are by considering it a cost of time, effort or
resourses, by purposely or acidently misunderstanding the need for
empathy, by simply not thinking about those in need, by seeing it as a
danger and not wanting to get involved, by telling ourselves that there
is nothing we can do, and by thinking someone else will do it.
Surprisingly the more people there are about the less likely people are
to help.
Empathic
thinking in art and entertainment.
Creativity that moves us, does so primarily by
means of empathy.
All art reaches us by means of empathy. Each time, the person
experiencing the art or entertainment, is caused
by
the work to identify with something in that work. In novels or plays we
are usually meant to identify with the hero or the protagonist, the
main or central character in the work. Often the protagonist is the
person narating the work in the first person. Even though we may not be
identifying with any but the protagonist the other characters actions
and beliefs have to be sufficiently understanable to us that the
predicament of the protagonist does not seem silly. This is not always
the case however that we only identify with the protagonist. Sometimes
the reader or playgoer is caused to
identify with all the characters seeing the same events from each
caracter's point of view in turn. The imortant thing is that the work
have at least one character who can be identified with. When a work has
no characters in it that we can
identify with, it is difficult to enjoy or be entertained by its
story. To allow us to identify with a character that character has to
have enough quatities like ourselves that we would want to feel what
he/she is feeling, we have to want to walk in their shoes and
experience the emotions they are experiencing. This kind of
identification is enjoyable because it is practice for mind reading
that is essential for our survival. It is also a safe environment where
such feelings can be experienced without any lasting danger. It's kind
of like learning to fly on a flight simulator.
The creators of these identification templates
(protagonists), in turn must also empathize. They all have to be able
to empathize in order to imbue each character with his or her
authenticity. Robert
and Michelle Root-Bernstein in their book "Sparks of Genius" explain:
"Every
fictional character who has a ring of autenticity was created by an
author who could, through imagination, so deeply live that character's
experience that he could bring it to life also for the reader.
Literature, we have repeatedly found, provides a rich resourse for
feeling a student's imagination, a necessary accomplishment if the
skill of empathy is to be mastered."
[Writers, actors, and physicians] "...learn to understand other
people not only objectivly from the outside but subjectively from the
inside. It is this aspect of 'becoming other,' of play-acting that
distinguishes empathizing from imaging or proproiceptive thinking. The
key to empathizing is learning to perceive the world through someone
elses mind and body."
Empathic
thinking in cinema and television.
The movies were like no other art form before
them. The
first movies were very much like plays photographed from a distance,
and like them had to rely on gross body posture and modulated speech to
allow viewers to exprience a very coarse impression of each character's
emotions. However, the cinema eventually invented the closeup. From
then on patrons were able to experience the most subtle
emotions
as conveyed by the tinyest flicker of facial movement closeup on the
big cinema screens. In
his book "The Age of Empathy" Frans de Waal comments:
"The
moment we buy a movie ticket, we choose to identify with the leading
character, thus making ourselves vulnerable to empatizing. We swoon
when she falls in love or leave the theater in tears because of her
untimely death, even though it's just a character played by someone we
don't personally know."
Learning,
science and empathic thinking.
Creativity at genius level and the ability to
generate new and startlingly origninal ideas has always involved the
ability to leave ones own situation and imagion yourself in the
situation of the problem one is trying to solve. Nobody saw this more
clearly than the philosopher Sir Karl Popper who went as far as to say:
"I think the most helpful
suggestion that can be made...as to how one may get ideas in general
[is] ...sympathetic
intuition or 'empathy'. ...You should enter into your problem situation
in such a way that you almost become part of it."
Deep
learning
of science (real understanding) requires the learner be able to put
himself in each
scientist's
shoes, do what he did and try to follow the though processes that led
him to make his discoveries. As reported in the book "Sparks of Genius,"
Thomas
Khun was a great believer in this for both learning and unleashing
creative potential:
"Thomas
Khun, preemenent historian of science in this century, taught his
students to penetrate a scientist's work by recreating his or her life
step by step. Read the existing documents in chronilogical order, he
advised, and when you can predict accurately the subject of the next
letter or paper that scientist writes, you are begining to understand
your subject. If you are wrong you must start again from some other
perspective, because you have not yet grasped the essence of the life
you study. You are not yet thinking and acting like a
scientist."
Robert
and Michelle Root-Bernstein in their book "Sparks of Genius" go on to
say:
"Indeed,
we have found that practitioners of every art , science and humanistic
profession use empathy as a primary tool, for it permits a kind of
understanding that is not atainable by any other means."
Robert
and Michelle Root-Bernstein in their book "Sparks of Genius" then give
examples:
"...Desmond Morris, whose
best-known work, 'The Naked Ape,' is an interpretation of man as
animal, argues that truly empathizing with animals does not result in
anthopomorphizing at all but represents a method for freeing oneself of
human perceptions. As a teenager, Morris's interest in animals became
so intense that he began to dream about them not as the humanized
characters of a Disney cartoon but as if he had become an animal
himself."
Morris
explains his study method as follows: "With each amimal I studied I
became that animal. I tried to think like it, to feel like it ...I
attempted as a research ethologist to put myself in the animals place,
so that its problems became my problems, and I read nothing into its
lifestyle that was alian to its particular species. And the dream said
it all."
Robert
and Michelle Root-Bernstein continue:
"Thomas Eisner, who has
pioneered the study of the chemical defence and communication systems
of insects, has had similar play-acting dreams. ...'Once I [even]
dreamed that I was an insect talking to insects and telling them I
dreamed I was human."
"...Barbara McClintock, who
worked on genetics of corn and various other living things. She spent
so much time with her plants and the preparations of their genetic
material that she knew them intimately, as individuals. She quite
literally took the time to 'make friends' with them... In the end
McClintock says she developed 'a feeling for the organism' so profound
that she actually felt that she became a gene or a cromosome herself."
"Physical scientists also rely
on play-acting and empathizing for insights. Organic chemist Peter
Debye explains: 'You had to use your feelings - what does a carbon atom
want to do ?' Einstein...would view the universe from the perspective
of a photon. For Ernest Rutherford, 'Atoms and alpha particles were as
real...as his friends,' and he became angry when a colleague suggested
they were just theoretical constructs."
"Subrahmanyan Chandrasekhar made
many discoveries in astrophysics by imagining the universe 'from the
point of view of a star,' and Richard Feynman revolutionized quantum
physics by asking himself question such as 'If I were an electron, what
would I do?'"
"Charles F. Kettering, director
of research at General Motors for many decades, would often reprimand
engineers who got carried away with complex calulations and models by
saying something like, 'Yes but do you know what it feels like to be a
piston in an engine?"
Physicians
and empathic thinking.
Doctors
of course not only need to be
creative but are in a profession where they are surrounded by people in
pain. On the one hand, doctor empathy is essential in understanding
what is happening in the bodies of their patients and gaining their
trust, but on the other, too much empathy leaves doctors vulnerable to
actually experiencing the same pain as others on a contuing basis.
Robert
and Michelle Root-Bernstein continue:
"Indeed,
many medical educators
assert that the ability to become, transiently, one's patient is a
skill that differentiates the best clinitians from the rest.
Empathizing is 'a key skill for the practice of any helping
relationship,' asserts E. A. Vastyan a medical educator at Pennsylvania
State University. The empathic caregiver recognizes the patients's
unspoken fear when an unfamiliar test or proceedure is ordered He or
she responds to patients with such sympathy and understanding that they
are willing to reveal their medical symptoms and secrets to a stranger,
willing to cooperate in proceedures that may give them pain or a
prognosis they would rather not hear, willing to unveil bodies or minds
they would prefer to keep to remain hidden. This ability to enter into
the 'very skin of another personis so much a part of psychiatry that
Alfred Margulies has written a book on the uses of psychiatric empathy
entitled, appropriately, 'The Empathic Imagination'"
"Rita Levi-Montalcini,
[was] a physician
who empathized
so strongly with her patients that she had to leave active practice to
save herself from the mental anguish this caused, transfered her
ability to the study of cellular growth and the factors that control
it."
Practice as
iterative improvement is a necessity for life long creativity.
If
we
are to preserve an extra ability to empathize, beyond what
most of us still retain, and thus multiply our
creative
ability and improve our chance of achieving genius status later in
life, this tool needs to be continually practiced, with a view to
continual improvement,
throughout life. If we continually try to perform improved
empathy in
our daily lives we will find this ability not only does not fade, but
rather
becomes stronger until it may be manipulated in the ways here described
to create the unique and new as is expected of a genius. By
concentrating on the use of verbal language and logic and purging our
brains of emotion, we will not find ourselves more creative and genius
like, but rather less so. This site asserts that every
effort
should be made to retain more of this invaluable facility or tool as it
is
useful for a whole range of human activities, not
just creative ones
and is essential to learning
itself.
Much
of the time most modern day people, are in all probability, suppressing
their empathy for others, for cultural reasons. In doing so,
they
may be depriving
themselves of a rich variety of data that could
well form the basis of new and unique ideas. Sure, the
trigering
of empathy can be dangerous, but if we are fully in control of its
triggering it is a risk worth taking. For us to
have a chance at being a genius, life long, increasing and improving
use this tool, may be a must.
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